My mother refused to help her 5-year-old son to help her. My child asked her grandmother every day: When did my mother come?

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My mother refused to help her 5-year-old son to help her. My child asked her grandmother every day: When did my mother come?

2018-12-14 10:25:32 39 ℃
"Grandma, everyone has a mother, why don't my mom come to see me, when will my mom come back to see me?" In the ward of the Department of Hematology, Zhengda First Affiliated Hospital In the middle, Zhang Shaofeng’s grandmother, Fan Fuxiu, whimpered and talked about the child’s words the day before. Fan Fuxiu said that Xiao Shaofeng needs to do a bone marrow transplant now, and his father's matching type is not matched. He can only find the child's mother to match, but the child's mother is not willing to come back to him to match. A 5-year-old child, life has just begun, and should be like a baby in the parents' hearts. Especially when the child is attacked by the disease, I believe that many parents will be desperate to save the child's life, let alone to match the child, but Xiao Shaofeng's mother is not willing to match with the child. So how can Xiao Shaofeng’s mother be so uncomfortable to match her children? The grandmother Fan Fuxiu said that the child's mother divorced her father Zhang Heng when he was one year old. After the divorce, my mother never returned. When the child is not sick, there are times when he wants to have a mother, but after all, the child is a little glimpse. But now the child is lying in the hospital bed every day, seeing that other people's father and mother are turning around the little friends, the loss and sadness in Xiao Shaofeng's heart is born. Fan Fuxiu said that what she fears most now is that the child raises his face every day. Q: Grandma, when will my mother come to see me, will my mother come to save me? Whenever the child said this, she was particularly uncomfortable in her heart. She could only bear tears and lie to the child. "As long as you obey, my mother will come back." Xiao Shaofeng Very sensible, sensible to let Fan Fuxiu sad. Once he asked his grandmother: "Grandma, can I cure this disease, and I will die in the end?" Fan Fuxiu can only perfuse and say: "Nothing, my mother will come back to save you, you will be cured, no. Will die." But the old man knows that if you don't do a matching transplant, your child's future can't imagine. Child grandfather Zhang Youchao said that Xiao Shaofeng has already done 9 courses of chemotherapy, but white blood cells have been unable to go down. The doctor said that he can only consider transplanting now. Although the bone marrow bank has been contacted, the long wait may aggravate the child's condition, so the whole family will pin their hopes on the child's biological mother, and contact the child's mother several times during the period, but she is not willing to come back to match. What makes Zhang Youchao worry is that the transplant fee of six or seven hundred thousand has not been settled. Xiao Shaofeng is from Baitugang Town, Nanzhao County, Nanyang City, Henan Province. The family has four people and relies on a few acres of land for their livelihood. In recent years, this family has been very difficult. Grandma Fan Fuxiu is 53 years old this year. She was unfortunate enough to have uterine cancer three years ago. She was treated in the hospital at that time. The body has not been very good after surgery. The child's grandfather got a stroke in April last year and was hospitalized several times before and after. Xiao Shaofeng is from Baitugang Town, Nanzhao County, Nanyang City, Henan Province. The family has four people and relies on a few acres of land for their livelihood. In recent years, this family has been very difficult. Grandma Fan Fuxiu is 53 years old this year. She was unfortunate enough to have uterine cancer three years ago. She was treated in the hospital at that time. The body has not been very good after surgery. The child's grandfather got a stroke in April last year and was hospitalized several times before and after. Xiao Shaofeng was first treated at the Nanyang Central Hospital, and then transferred to the Zhengzhou First Affiliated Hospital in Zhengzhou. In just a few months, he has spent more than 180,000. In the year, the two old people have already had their own savings in the family. Now all the money for the children is borrowed from relatives and friends. They have already owed more than 200,000 yuan in foreign debts. Since the child was sick, Xiao Shaofeng’s father, Zhang Heng, has been working on the construction site to earn money. The burden of taking care of the children in the hospital falls on the children’s grandparents. In the days when the two elderly people take care of their children in the hospital, they spend a lot of money every day. They don’t want to spend a little more money. They usually buy boiled water and eat water. At night, they sleep in front of the bed. It’s really difficult for doctors and nurses in the hospital to see them. They are also very caring for them. They not only allow them to play in the ground in front of the bed, but sometimes even buy one more. Give them. In August of this year, because of taking care of his grandson, Zhang Youchao’s illness recurred again. Fortunately, after treatment, the elderly are now recovering well. In order to save the child the money to lose platelets, the child’s father, Zhang Heng, will give a platelet every month, but because his body is too weak, he has been rejected several times. Mining. Fan Fuxiu is particularly afraid now, afraid that he will lose his grandson forever when he turns around. However, Fan Fuxiu has no means at all. (Li Jiangli) original works, without authorization, any form of reprint is strictly prohibited, infringement will be investigated!