The mother took the boy into the women’s bath and was rejected. Is it the management’s right to deprive the child with the idea?

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The mother took the boy into the women’s bath and was rejected. Is it the management’s right to deprive the child with the idea?

2019-01-04 00:22:33 772 ℃

Set up a "family bath"

Text |吕亦玫

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Changchun three-year-old boy, taking a bath with his mother and sister, the bath forbidden three-year-old boy into the women's bath, was rejected, the parents were angry! On December 31, a Changchun citizen broke the news on Weibo, saying that he encountered a difficult thing to accept on the 31st, which was related to whether his 3 year old grandson could enter the women's bathroom. After the content of the broke news was sent to all major platforms, it immediately triggered a hot discussion among netizens. (See Beiqing Net on January 3, 2019)

The mother took the boy into the women’s bath and was rejected. The mother could not understand and thought that the bath manager did not talk about human feelings. Even in "using your sly thoughts to deprive children of their power." This kind of mood can be understood, but empathy may be dispelled.

Imagine if the female bath is 5 years old The 8-year-old girl is taking a shower. You bring a son 90 cm tall into the bath in the women's bath. Will they agree? Or if you want to take your 90-cm-high daughter into the male bath, would you like it?

The mother took the boy into the women’s bath and was rejected. There is no reason. It can protect the privacy of the public and protect the boy's healthy growth. Because once you don't refuse, you will feel embarrassed. Although the 3-year-old boy is not very sensible, but knows that men and women are different, and the memory is strong, so that he can easily see the private parts of the opposite sex, it is easy for the opposite sex woman to feel very embarrassed.

Especially in public women’s baths, let 3 The old boy saw the privacy of women and undoubtedly violated women’s privacy. At the same time, the boy is precocious. The child has been gender-conscious since the age of 3, with a 3-year-old boy entering the women's bath, so that he can easily see the female's privacy, easy to stimulate the child's physiological growth, induce the child's precocious puberty, make the child's sexual psychological dislocation, bring bad as a result of.

In addition, it is not conducive to the healthy growth of children. 3 to 6 years old is the key period for children's individual psychological development. It is good for children to know the difference between men and women, which is conducive to a correct understanding of their gender and to gradually form a reasonable gender role. With a 3-year-old boy casually entering the women's bath, it is easy for him to mistakenly believe that men and women have no gender, and where women go, men can go, which is not conducive to children growing into normal people.

Of course, for For the merchant, the customer is God. In the face of the mother with a 90-cm-high son to take a bath, special treatment can be carried out. For example, a male employee can be arranged to take the boy to the male bath for a bath. The problem is that the business is too good and there are many people on the day. The bath arrangement is not over, and it should be justifiable.

However, the mother took the boy into the women’s bath and was rejected. It was like the mother’s rejection of the boy’s public toilet and the mother’s rejection of the boy’s entrance to the women’s bath. There is no solution. In Shanghai, Suzhou and other places, the “third bathroom” was added, and “non-gender public toilets” were added in Beijing, Guangzhou and Hangzhou to solve related problems. Stones from other hills, can learn. Only by setting up a "parent bath" or setting up a "third bath" will be able to solve it.