Save your mother or save your wife? Indonesian men’s life and death after the choice of pain, self-blame and regret

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Save your mother or save your wife? Indonesian men’s life and death after the choice of pain, self-blame and regret

2018-12-27 20:25:31 137 ℃
Since ancient times, my wife and mother have fallen into the sea at the same time. The man who should save him has become a difficult problem for the man who is in trouble. In the movie "Tangshan Earthquake", it is helpless. For her mother, saving her son or saving her daughter also made her sad, and she lived in self-blame for decades. Nowadays, in the tsunami disaster in Indonesia, relatives have difficulties at the same time, and who is the hardest choice to save. A number of foreign media reported on December 26 that Udin Ahok, a 46-year-old man from Sumatra, Indonesia, was forced to face the "salvation of a mother or a wife" After the difficult problem, he chose to save his wife who was swallowed up by the sea, and eventually his mother and son were killed. He regretted it. Many media reports on this deed have used a very conspicuous title "The grief of life and death" because the rescue time is very precious, after Ahawk rescued his wife, My 70-year-old mother and her one-year-old son missed the opportunity to survive and died. In the face of such a tragedy, Ahawk was extremely painful. He hated himself and accused himself of leaving two relatives to leave because he had no use. After this incident was disclosed by the media, many netizens expressed very distress, saying that the man was in a difficult situation at that time, no matter what choices he made, he would blame himself from the heart. Now that he and his wife are out of danger, I hope they can come back again and raise their children again. At present, the disaster in Indonesia is still very bad. The tsunami killed at least 430 people, injured 1,495 people, and more than 159 people were missing. Traffic was damaged due to road damage and heavy rain. Blocked, hundreds of bodies have rotted on the streets.