The long phase of the child, exposes parents' emotions

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The long phase of the child, exposes parents' emotions

2021-11-28 12:08:36 44 ℃

Wen | small mother

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My friend told me a point of view. She said she now rely on the 60-year-old daughter "raise".

For example, she inadvertently touched her daughter's small water cup on the table, and her husband immediately complained:

"You can't be careful, how big, it's also a hair, careless ..."

"Mom is not a person who is careless, this is just an accident." While talking while listening to the chair, giving her paper towel to clean up.

Sometimes the whole family says which place, friend makeup or packed some slow, my husband will urge impatiently:

"It's almost the same, can you hurry up, in the case of traffic jam ..."

And the daughter is always:

"Mom is not anxious, we are waiting for you", "Mom is so beautiful, I like my mother," Mom, I will help you ... "

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My friend said that love can't nourish her, only daughters can nourish her.

Stay with your husband, it will be accused, and she is also more annoyed.

But with my daughter, with my daughter talking to the day, hug daughter, kiss daughter, all the troubles are gone.

This feeling said, I can understand it.

We are uncomfortable with one person, and there is no direct relationship with the age and social status of that person, but depends on the energy field that the person is displayed.

Some people have strong energy, high emotional business, with him, there is a feeling of spring breeze, bringing out of these people, and the face is always laughing.

People with weak energy fields, the child's face is still lacking.

Just like this friend's husband is a 985 master's degree.

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Born in the countryside, relying on your hardships and intelligents, all the way to change the fate, is a very inspirational typical.

But I don't know if I have eaten too much bitterness, or I have seen too many unfair things, always a bit of a little extreme, not sunshine, and all kinds of people are not used to this society.

Life also likes borrowing questions, it is easy to complain and evaluate people and things around.

He is a kind, diligent person, is also a responsible husband and father, but get along with him, "unfortunately blessing" further a little headache.

It is a very optimistic person who is very optimistic.

The hard understanding of her daughter is interested in and optimistic. It should be inherited her mother's character, plus usually more time to mother, and learn to learn.

So my husband's energy field is often gloomy, with a friend of this sunshine energy field, and the energy of my friend is sucked away.

If a friend is not so bright, it is very likely that it is going to be everywhere.

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And the daughter's energy court is sunshine, the people of the two sunshine energy fields are together, and the natural daughter is also happy. Mom is also happy.

Although there is a lot of trouble, hate things, at least these two sunshine energy fields have a positive strength.

I have seen a sentence, and most of this world is that people are also happy. Love is also happy, marriage is also happy, divorce is also happy, because she will make people happy.

Some people are not happiness, giving him anything unhappy.

I think, for the child, the happiest thing in the world is probably the main support, is a person who has the ability to make yourself happy.

The biggest unfortunate, but also, your own raares, is a person who gave him something unhappy.

I have seen a variety show called "Super Parenting", which is very deep in one of the programs.

A couple helped to the column group to say that there are some small problems with their family six and a half years old:

When the child criticized by Mom and Dad, there was a little emotion before, and now the child is suppressing his emotions;

It is easy to lack confidence, when you encounter problems or difficulties, it is easy to be frustrated.

When the child criticized by Mom and Dad, there was a little emotion before, and now the child is suppressing his emotions;

It is easy to lack confidence, when you encounter problems or difficulties, it is easy to be frustrated.

When the parenting teacher came to Xuan Xuan's home, I found that Xuan Xuan is actually a very lively boy, and then parenting and Xuan Xuan family say that this is the main purpose is to observe, what do you usually have, how is it now? NS.

After the childcare staff observed this scene: Xuan Xuan finished the homework, I want my mother to be hand-made, but my mother doesn't want to do hand, think of chess.

The mother and son were discouraged, and finally, Xuan Xuan accompanied the two chess people under the mother, and the mother came to accompany Xuan Xuan to do handmade.

Mom has been complaining during the process of Huan Xuan Xuan

"Do your hand is painful, you can choose one of our two people who are interested."

While my mother said, I also stick to Huan Xuan's manual, Xuan Xuan cried.

It's hard to make Xuan Xuan, my mother is constant.

"I don't want to get it, this is too painful, so small place to cut crazy."

Xuan Xuan can't do it, I have to compromise:

"Then you stick this, the rest of me is sticking."

mother:

"That's, can I do this? Can I go to cook? Oh, this is too painful, I am leaving, do this hand too painful, or call your Dad to get it. My old waist Also quickly ...

After the child care, he said:

"It's better to say that my mother is accompanied by Xuan Xuan, but I am a mother who is going to be a very poor."

Xuan Xuan Mom said:

"Xuan Xuan from small to most, I brought him, I can't adjust it at all, as a full-time mother, I really want to have a kind of feeling of this kind of feeling, so he has let me accompany me, I I will be annoying more. "

After that, Xuan Xuan Dad went home from get off work, very obvious, Xuan Xuan became very happy.

And when Dad entered the door, the first thing is also accompanying Xuan Xuan to do hand.

It can be seen that Xuan Xuan especially likes to interact with Dad.

At this time, my mother cooking in the kitchen, went to the kitchen door to talk to the father and son:

"Xuan Xuan, your plane makes Dad to make you gave you. His plane can not do it, where it is frustrated and fire, let me get, I gave him, he still didn't believe me, cry I have this kind of righteousness. I am obvious is right, he doesn't believe me. "

Dad helped Xuan Xuan to get handmade, very happy to say:

"I am super to do handle my father."

Mom heard, standing again in the kitchen door to his father and son:

"You can't you have to love you."

After that, my mother repeatedly came out from the kitchen many times, constantly said:

"You can do it again, you have to satisfy his."

"I just can't see you every day, you don't know how to refuse"

"Do you think you are proud, children like you, you are very proud."

Parenting people felt a lot of negative energy, she said:

"In this family, I found that my father said, my mother's attitude dismissed, but also surprised that this disdainful attitude is that naked in front of a seven-year-old child." .

This couple seems to be helpful for the child's problem, but in fact the child's problem is caused by couples and their respective emotional fields.

This family opposite the friends mentioned earlier, as the mother of the child's main supporter, is a gloomy person in energy.

She is with my children, not mutually nourishing, but she is not allowed to absorb the energy on the child and pull the child to her own negative emotions.

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The child's energy field is still unstable. When he is influenced by the negative emotions of the mother, it naturally does not love expression and is easy to be frustrated.

All of this is not normal. We look forward to a child to become a happy person, there is no personality defect and emotional person, but all of this decisive, in fact, it is not our own.

The poet Zangke has a small poem:

A person with a child in a long time,

Her heart will always live in a clear spring.

A person who is warm and cultivated,

She will appreciate it growing the wind.

A person who forgot me labor,

Her image is fresh in someone else's memories.

A person who is warm and warm,

Her own heart must feel warm.

A person with a child in a long time,

Her heart will always live in a clear spring.

A person who is warm and cultivated,

She will appreciate it growing the wind.

A person who forgot me labor,

Her image is fresh in someone else's memories.

A person who is warm and warm,

Her own heart must feel warm.

This poem is very warm, but just talk about half.

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A person who is with the child, if there is love in his heart, it is possible to pass the forward energy to the child, he and the child will live a lotus spring.

But if he has too much negative energy, then he will only let the child feel depressed and painful. The original Qingquan will be exhausted, and there is no interest.

We are a child's parents, and it is the most important person of the child.

So the best thing we can do for children is to reduce the complaints of life, reduce the crowd of love, and reduce the anxiety of children.

When we are strong, when the emotions is peaceful, the child will launch hope and strength in any environment. That will become his most reliable weapon when he is in this difficult world.